18 months
That's how long, on average, it has taken us to really feel settled in each time we move.
I always hope it will be sooner.
Just yesterday I realized that we had passed the anniversary of the first year in our home. Life has gone so fast that I felt a little taken a back as to how that date snuck by us unannounced. Looking around I started to wonder if we had really gotten very far in the past year: the house still needs so much work, there are plenty of questions surrounding Tom's job, I am back in the work force, money is tight and time is even tighter. Our kids have struggled, we have struggled, in short, we have learned a lot about our weaknesses and where we need to improve.
Yesterday started out as another one of those tough days. Spencer missed the bus, I lost the parking pass for my car for work, the other kids were late for school, there was arguing and general frustration on the part of many of our family members, it was Monday in its truest form.
That afternoon I was in a meeting when I suddenly realized that I was late to catch the two youngest boys at the bus stop. September usually is with them and I can send her a message if I am late, but today she stayed after school for science club, so I had no way of getting in touch with the boys.
Luckily I don't work too far from home so I gathered my things and headed out. The boys had started walking the 1.5 miles home from the bus stop and had made some good progress before I caught up to them. They have walked the entire route a few times, but it is a long walk for Ben and he really struggles to keep up with his brother and sister. Occasionally, Theo has let Ben hold onto his back pack and will pull him along if Ben can keep his grip. I suspected to see something similar today.
As I came along the main road to our home, I spotted the two boys ahead of me on the sidewalk.
I pulled up slowly and realized they were walking side by side - something unusual for our turbo charged youngest who can walk circles around his older brother. To my surprise I noticed our boys holding hands. Theo was carefully bringing Ben along and they were talking and laughing together.
The sweetness of that gesture changed my entire day around, and continues to resonate with me now.
Maybe, in all the madness, the moving, the work, the struggles, the loneliness and the worry, we have done something right, because at the very least, they love each other enough to serve each other.
I wish I had a picture of that moment to share with others -but maybe its better etched in my mind where no one can use it to tease or abuse it. Parenthood is one of the greatest blessings we have been given, certainly one of the most challenging as well. Moments like those are the sweetest gifts - gifts of perspective that keep us grounded and moving forward on our journey.
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Friday, September 23, 2011
When the inspector and the mold contractor went through our home they took a few more air samples, one in the kitchen and one on the bedroom side of the home where they found some fantastic leaks from the roof. Their hope was to prove that the side of the home with the water leaks was the source of the mold. While we were waiting for those tests to come back we ended up having to replace half the roof to stop the leaking.
Unfortunately, when the tests came back, they showed that the kitchen had higher mold counts than the rest of the house! We discovered another leak - a door in the utility room had been installed incorrectly and was letting water in every time we had a substantial rain (which is the only type of rain in FL). We ended up taking out the flooring and the wood panelling in the kitchen and sure enough there was mold
on the furring strips behind the panelling. The General Contractor we had been using had to move onto
2 other jobs but we remembered another man who had helped us with the first place we moved to last year in Palmetto.
He is also a member of the church (a big bonus because every other contractor we have had in the home has been smoking on their breaks and the smell and mess was awful) and he was just finishing a job when we called him. His name is Mike Turner. He came right up and got started on the kitchen walls. They are now cleaned up and dry-walled and he discovered they were open right down to the crawl space so he sealed those up. His son also came up and removed a giant brick planter that was in the middle of the living room and full of dirt. The house smells and looks so much better with that done. I'll get pics posted this weekend.
We have been in negotiations with the insulation company that really screwed up the insulation in the crawl-space and we are hoping to see a resolution with that early next week. Mike cut a hole in the kitchen floor to permit them to get under the rest of the house to finish insulating and we are not backing down until we get what we agreed to and paid for originally.
Tom has also started installing some of the flooring in the areas we had to take carpet out and I have been priming all the dry-wall that has been repaired in the house. It is starting to look more like a nice place to live every day.
We were really hoping to be in next weekend, but because of the insulation issues, it will probably be another week after that or even a week later depending on how long it takes to get the rest of the flooring in and then everything cleaned and tested.
Tom is also facing a big deadline at work on October 15th so his time to spend on the house is getting less and less.
Hopefully it will all come together soon - but one thing we keep learning is that it will come together when its time. The trick is just hanging in there - which really is the tough part some days.
When I get a few minutes I will put some pictures up so you can see the transformation.
Hope you are all well - we pray for all of you and really miss you!
T&S
Friday, September 9, 2011
Just out of our reach . .
Since our last post we have closed on both our homes - selling the one in SLC and purchasing the one here in St Petersburg and the kids have started school.
Oh how we would love to say we are settling in, making new friends and enjoying our new home . . .
As many of you know, the home tested positive for mold and had some water damage before we purchased it so we had arranged to have some money put in escrow from the seller and had contracted with a certified mold remediation company before we closed.
Work began on the house immediately after closing - we have had the heat pump and all the a/c venting replaced. We have also had all the old electrical updated and had the roof repaired (multiple times actually). We had new gutters installed around the majority of the home and had them tied into a french drain and had the yard graded to prevent water from running underneath the house. We also had a vapor barrier put underneath the crawl space and insulation sprayed underneath the house to seal the home from any further moisture damage or mold spores coming up from the ground underneath through the floors. We also had several (8+) HUGE weed trees taken down (along with the old fence that was "leaning" on them) which drop massive amounts of pollen and seeds 3-4 times a year. The city has threatened to give us a plaque as they are so grateful to have them gone. =)
After all that was done, the mold remediation company (BRC) came in and took down all the old wallpaper, cut out portions of the ceilings and walls in rooms that had any signs of water damage, removed all the carpet and scrubbed the entire house from top to bottom to remove any signs of mold.
Dehumidifiers were brought in to absorb any excess moisture from the leaks then 3 large air scrubbing machines have been running in the house for nearly 5 days.
This past Tuesday, the inspector was given clearance to return to the home and take air samples - one in the house and one outside. He was thrilled with how clean the house was and confident they had done a great job, all we had to do was wait for test results. Last night we got the test results and to everyone's surprise - the house is still testing positive for one type of mold, the toxic kind of course, in pretty much the same amount as was found initially. The other, less dangerous types of mold are gone.
So - the inspector is coming back tonight to go through the home with a fine tooth comb and see if they can figure out where this colony of mold might be hiding. So far, the amount of mold they are finding isn't excessively high, but it is high enough that it isn't safe to ignore.
Needless to say, we are really disappointed at the situation but grateful BRC and the inspector are coming back to give it another go around and especially grateful Tom's boss has been so patient and willing to let us invade her home while we wait for ours.
Our kids have been troopers - starting school again in limbo (this feels so familiar), sharing beds and sleeping on mattresses on the floor - but it is starting to take its toll. Tember has been sick this week and it looks like everyone else isn't doing well trying not to catch it from her. Ben is really struggling with school, I have spoken with the school several times and have a meeting with the teacher finally next week, everyone is just really tired. Probably both physically and emotionally - it is hard to have some semblance of permanence or end to this craziness constantly out of reach. We are trying to remember we are lucky to have each other, but oh how we ache to settle down and feel like we belong somewhere again.
As soon as we know more, we will let you know - but as for now, we are still in limbo, still praying that the mold will show itself and we can get things taken care of and somehow, someday, settle in again.
Hopefully next time we will have access to the house and pictures too. We are well aware that there are many deserving of your prayers, but if you have the chance to throw us in there again, we would be so grateful. Take care - we miss you all
T&S & Fam
Oh how we would love to say we are settling in, making new friends and enjoying our new home . . .
As many of you know, the home tested positive for mold and had some water damage before we purchased it so we had arranged to have some money put in escrow from the seller and had contracted with a certified mold remediation company before we closed.
Work began on the house immediately after closing - we have had the heat pump and all the a/c venting replaced. We have also had all the old electrical updated and had the roof repaired (multiple times actually). We had new gutters installed around the majority of the home and had them tied into a french drain and had the yard graded to prevent water from running underneath the house. We also had a vapor barrier put underneath the crawl space and insulation sprayed underneath the house to seal the home from any further moisture damage or mold spores coming up from the ground underneath through the floors. We also had several (8+) HUGE weed trees taken down (along with the old fence that was "leaning" on them) which drop massive amounts of pollen and seeds 3-4 times a year. The city has threatened to give us a plaque as they are so grateful to have them gone. =)
After all that was done, the mold remediation company (BRC) came in and took down all the old wallpaper, cut out portions of the ceilings and walls in rooms that had any signs of water damage, removed all the carpet and scrubbed the entire house from top to bottom to remove any signs of mold.
Dehumidifiers were brought in to absorb any excess moisture from the leaks then 3 large air scrubbing machines have been running in the house for nearly 5 days.
This past Tuesday, the inspector was given clearance to return to the home and take air samples - one in the house and one outside. He was thrilled with how clean the house was and confident they had done a great job, all we had to do was wait for test results. Last night we got the test results and to everyone's surprise - the house is still testing positive for one type of mold, the toxic kind of course, in pretty much the same amount as was found initially. The other, less dangerous types of mold are gone.
So - the inspector is coming back tonight to go through the home with a fine tooth comb and see if they can figure out where this colony of mold might be hiding. So far, the amount of mold they are finding isn't excessively high, but it is high enough that it isn't safe to ignore.
Needless to say, we are really disappointed at the situation but grateful BRC and the inspector are coming back to give it another go around and especially grateful Tom's boss has been so patient and willing to let us invade her home while we wait for ours.
Our kids have been troopers - starting school again in limbo (this feels so familiar), sharing beds and sleeping on mattresses on the floor - but it is starting to take its toll. Tember has been sick this week and it looks like everyone else isn't doing well trying not to catch it from her. Ben is really struggling with school, I have spoken with the school several times and have a meeting with the teacher finally next week, everyone is just really tired. Probably both physically and emotionally - it is hard to have some semblance of permanence or end to this craziness constantly out of reach. We are trying to remember we are lucky to have each other, but oh how we ache to settle down and feel like we belong somewhere again.
As soon as we know more, we will let you know - but as for now, we are still in limbo, still praying that the mold will show itself and we can get things taken care of and somehow, someday, settle in again.
Hopefully next time we will have access to the house and pictures too. We are well aware that there are many deserving of your prayers, but if you have the chance to throw us in there again, we would be so grateful. Take care - we miss you all
T&S & Fam
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Wanderers in a Strange Land
For those of you not current on our continual state of moving - we moved again the end of June.
We are taking temporary refuge in Tom's boss's house in the Shore Acres neighborhood of St Petersburg while we wait to see what will happen on the home(s) we have under contract and what will happen
with our home in SLC.
We've been fortunate to get the kids involved in some really fun activities so far - they are all taking sailing classes at the youth sailing center that is practically across the street from Tom's office and they are all really enjoying it.
Tember seems to have found a new gym and has been invited to be on the level 4 competition team (she is very excited!)
The boys are all swimming on a local swim team. - yep - all 3 boys - they have one lane on the shallow end of the pool for special needs swimmers and Ben has been loving it. He has been begging to join his brothers on the swim team but hasn't had the ability to swim in deep water so this has been perfect. It's only about 4 feet deep - just deep enough that he can't walk it but shallow enough that he can go and touch the bottom for reassurance. He plugs along, grabbing the lane lines as he goes - with a huge smile on his face the entire time.
Theo also has a huge smile on his face each time he comes out of the water - the coach has him with the 8 & 9 year-olds because they are the only ones that can keep up with him. He is just one GIANT BALL OF ENERGY. For some reason we thought that would lessen as he got older - but it really seems to have increased, ten-fold. His sailing coach can hardly wait for him to turn 8 so he can join the racing team - they say he is absolutely fearless on the water (imagine that?).
Spencer is getting his stride back as well - he is sailing bigger boats than the other kids and really enjoys it. He is learning how hard it is to be a teenage boy with a clean mouth and mind (we are really grateful that he is still horrified by all the foul language of his peers out here, and even more mindful of the challenges that presents a young man trying to participate in sports and friendships). He is also getting his strokes back in the pool. It's fun to see him back in the water - he always comes out in a much better mood than he went in. =)
We are still working on where he will attend school in the fall - middle school here is a little scary and very tricky. All the schools are on a lottery system so he is on waiting lists which can take until the 10th day of school to shake down. Ugh - we are looking at private, homeschool and charter. Hopefully something will come together before too long.
Patience seems to be the name of the game this year - we like to think we are getting better at it - or at least better at continuing to live while waiting. The kids have been good sports, but they need friends and a community and just to know where to plan on being for awhile- we could use some of that too.
Keep your eyes open for a few more photos and such over the next few days - in the middle of all the moving we've had some fun.
We are taking temporary refuge in Tom's boss's house in the Shore Acres neighborhood of St Petersburg while we wait to see what will happen on the home(s) we have under contract and what will happen
with our home in SLC.
We've been fortunate to get the kids involved in some really fun activities so far - they are all taking sailing classes at the youth sailing center that is practically across the street from Tom's office and they are all really enjoying it.
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| Theo & Ben hard at work =) |
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| Tember practicing |
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| Spencer is at the back steering the boat |
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| Tom & I even got a trip out to the bay in on the 4th |
Tember seems to have found a new gym and has been invited to be on the level 4 competition team (she is very excited!)
The boys are all swimming on a local swim team. - yep - all 3 boys - they have one lane on the shallow end of the pool for special needs swimmers and Ben has been loving it. He has been begging to join his brothers on the swim team but hasn't had the ability to swim in deep water so this has been perfect. It's only about 4 feet deep - just deep enough that he can't walk it but shallow enough that he can go and touch the bottom for reassurance. He plugs along, grabbing the lane lines as he goes - with a huge smile on his face the entire time.
Theo also has a huge smile on his face each time he comes out of the water - the coach has him with the 8 & 9 year-olds because they are the only ones that can keep up with him. He is just one GIANT BALL OF ENERGY. For some reason we thought that would lessen as he got older - but it really seems to have increased, ten-fold. His sailing coach can hardly wait for him to turn 8 so he can join the racing team - they say he is absolutely fearless on the water (imagine that?).
Spencer is getting his stride back as well - he is sailing bigger boats than the other kids and really enjoys it. He is learning how hard it is to be a teenage boy with a clean mouth and mind (we are really grateful that he is still horrified by all the foul language of his peers out here, and even more mindful of the challenges that presents a young man trying to participate in sports and friendships). He is also getting his strokes back in the pool. It's fun to see him back in the water - he always comes out in a much better mood than he went in. =)
We are still working on where he will attend school in the fall - middle school here is a little scary and very tricky. All the schools are on a lottery system so he is on waiting lists which can take until the 10th day of school to shake down. Ugh - we are looking at private, homeschool and charter. Hopefully something will come together before too long.
Patience seems to be the name of the game this year - we like to think we are getting better at it - or at least better at continuing to live while waiting. The kids have been good sports, but they need friends and a community and just to know where to plan on being for awhile- we could use some of that too.
Keep your eyes open for a few more photos and such over the next few days - in the middle of all the moving we've had some fun.
Friday, April 29, 2011
A truly royal wedding . .
While watching a few minutes of the Royal Wedding this morning I couldn't help but hope those two young lovebirds are prepared for the adventures and challenges ahead of them.
I couldn't help but compare them to two other lovebirds we recently attended a wedding for -
the pomp and circumstance surrounding the aforementioned nuptials pale in comparison to the
sweet tears and simple elegance that flowed freely as Tom's eldest sister finally made the long-awaited walk down the aisle just a few weeks before.
The weekend we flew to Denver is one of the sweetest experiences we have ever had with Tom's family - after months of separation since our move to Florida and with so many of his siblings spread across the country, we were so unprepared for the emotions of that event. For weeks prior to the trip we had been counting the days to see grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins we have missed so dearly, we tried to jam every second with time together.
Within hours of our arrival we realized how impossible it would be to spend enough time with each or our loved ones to be satisfied in the short 2 days we had there. What was even more overwhelming was the amazing healing that had taken place in a once fractured family as Tom's sister and her fiance had reached out to include all of their family members in their celebration of love, renewal and commitment to each other.
So much has been said as of late on the importance of marrying, staying married and cherishing marriage. In a world where so many people have chosen lives that make marriage seem old fashioned, unnecessary or even disposable - we are so grateful to have been allowed to participate in the celebration of great love that is the result of great effort and faith.
We are doubly grateful to be part of a family that cherishes each other - to be married as best friends who are committed through the eternities and to raise children with the knowledge that the work required to bring them up in a righteous, loving family prepared to start righteous loving families of their own is the most important work on this earth.
Life is so hard, and sometimes days get dark even in the sunshine - but we have no doubt there is an All Powerful Creator lovingly watching over us and guiding us. There is no doubt in our minds that He knew our greatest trials would come as we struggle together as families made up of individuals - but He also knows our greatest joys, blessings and rewards would come as we succeed in loving and making family relationships work.
I couldn't help but compare them to two other lovebirds we recently attended a wedding for -
the pomp and circumstance surrounding the aforementioned nuptials pale in comparison to the
The weekend we flew to Denver is one of the sweetest experiences we have ever had with Tom's family - after months of separation since our move to Florida and with so many of his siblings spread across the country, we were so unprepared for the emotions of that event. For weeks prior to the trip we had been counting the days to see grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins we have missed so dearly, we tried to jam every second with time together.
Within hours of our arrival we realized how impossible it would be to spend enough time with each or our loved ones to be satisfied in the short 2 days we had there. What was even more overwhelming was the amazing healing that had taken place in a once fractured family as Tom's sister and her fiance had reached out to include all of their family members in their celebration of love, renewal and commitment to each other.
So much has been said as of late on the importance of marrying, staying married and cherishing marriage. In a world where so many people have chosen lives that make marriage seem old fashioned, unnecessary or even disposable - we are so grateful to have been allowed to participate in the celebration of great love that is the result of great effort and faith.
We are doubly grateful to be part of a family that cherishes each other - to be married as best friends who are committed through the eternities and to raise children with the knowledge that the work required to bring them up in a righteous, loving family prepared to start righteous loving families of their own is the most important work on this earth.
Life is so hard, and sometimes days get dark even in the sunshine - but we have no doubt there is an All Powerful Creator lovingly watching over us and guiding us. There is no doubt in our minds that He knew our greatest trials would come as we struggle together as families made up of individuals - but He also knows our greatest joys, blessings and rewards would come as we succeed in loving and making family relationships work.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
A return to the blogosphere . . .
I wondered what it would take to bring me back to the blogosphere -
the past many months have been
well-
I don't really have words for them or I guess I would have blogged before now.
We have seen tragedies and miracles
Lots of laughter and tears
And we are grateful that spring is upon us and each day is new.
Perhaps the most monumental of moments for both Tom & I took place about a week ago.
Ben decided to be baptized.
The decision was absolutely his - 8 is the earliest you can choose to be baptized in the Church and both Tom and I wondered if Ben would be ready or even interested in being baptized at age 8. Developmentally, Ben is a wild card, most of the time behind his peers. But as his birthday
approached it was all he could talk about.
He could hardly wait.
His interview with the Bishop went well.
He choose the program from the prayers to the speakers to the songs.
(he asked September to speak on baptism and Spencer to speak on the gift of the Holy Ghost, Grandma Debbie to give the opening prayers and aunt Jenny to give the closing)
He even knew he wanted strawberry shortcake for refreshments.
Tom's youngest sister Jenny drove over from West Palm Beach (about 3 1/2 hrs away) the night before and Grandpa & Grandma Elggren flew in that night as well.
It's always a bit of work to get talks completed, refreshments made and everything put together then transfer it to the chapel, but the day came together beautifully.
With all the craziness, it wasn't until Tom escorted that little man down into the baptismal font that the sanctity and miracle of that moment hit both of us.
I pray I will never lose the picture that is still etched in my mind of Ben standing straight and tall in the warm water with Tom's arm around him. Ben is smiling and tears are running down Tom's face as we both realize the miracle we were experiencing.
It wasn't too many years ago we were told to expect that Ben would no longer be walking independently by the time he was 8 years old.
Yet, here he was, walking down the stairs and standing straight and tall in the font, smiling ear to ear.
Apparently the doctor's forgot to tell Ben.
Aside from a slightly weakened heart and lungs, Ben is in great shape. He is learning to read and add double digit numbers and has a huge crush on a cute girl in his 2nd grade class.
No, he is not able to keep up with his class on everything and gets lots of help to be where he is, but he is progressing, running, jumping, reading, even playing basketball with his younger brother.
I think we only had to coax him out from under the table a few times (he still panics when too many people are looking at him), but he wanted to be baptized and confirmed so badly that the coaxing was brief when we promised only people who love him were there that day. (not everyone that loves him could be there, but the few who were there are all special to him)
It was a different sort of day than the baptisms of our older children that had been full of family and friends and food - March 5th was a very Ben day - for a little guy who came into the world without fanfare or even a cry, the day was simple and sweet, touching, profound even and full of great love - the experience was beautiful.
the past many months have been
well-
I don't really have words for them or I guess I would have blogged before now.
We have seen tragedies and miracles
Lots of laughter and tears
And we are grateful that spring is upon us and each day is new.
Perhaps the most monumental of moments for both Tom & I took place about a week ago.
The decision was absolutely his - 8 is the earliest you can choose to be baptized in the Church and both Tom and I wondered if Ben would be ready or even interested in being baptized at age 8. Developmentally, Ben is a wild card, most of the time behind his peers. But as his birthday
approached it was all he could talk about.
He could hardly wait.
His interview with the Bishop went well.
He choose the program from the prayers to the speakers to the songs.
(he asked September to speak on baptism and Spencer to speak on the gift of the Holy Ghost, Grandma Debbie to give the opening prayers and aunt Jenny to give the closing)
He even knew he wanted strawberry shortcake for refreshments.
Tom's youngest sister Jenny drove over from West Palm Beach (about 3 1/2 hrs away) the night before and Grandpa & Grandma Elggren flew in that night as well.
It's always a bit of work to get talks completed, refreshments made and everything put together then transfer it to the chapel, but the day came together beautifully.
With all the craziness, it wasn't until Tom escorted that little man down into the baptismal font that the sanctity and miracle of that moment hit both of us.
I pray I will never lose the picture that is still etched in my mind of Ben standing straight and tall in the warm water with Tom's arm around him. Ben is smiling and tears are running down Tom's face as we both realize the miracle we were experiencing.
It wasn't too many years ago we were told to expect that Ben would no longer be walking independently by the time he was 8 years old.
Yet, here he was, walking down the stairs and standing straight and tall in the font, smiling ear to ear.
Apparently the doctor's forgot to tell Ben.
Aside from a slightly weakened heart and lungs, Ben is in great shape. He is learning to read and add double digit numbers and has a huge crush on a cute girl in his 2nd grade class.
No, he is not able to keep up with his class on everything and gets lots of help to be where he is, but he is progressing, running, jumping, reading, even playing basketball with his younger brother.
I think we only had to coax him out from under the table a few times (he still panics when too many people are looking at him), but he wanted to be baptized and confirmed so badly that the coaxing was brief when we promised only people who love him were there that day. (not everyone that loves him could be there, but the few who were there are all special to him)
It was a different sort of day than the baptisms of our older children that had been full of family and friends and food - March 5th was a very Ben day - for a little guy who came into the world without fanfare or even a cry, the day was simple and sweet, touching, profound even and full of great love - the experience was beautiful.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Dia De Los Muertos
Okay, so it really is just Halloween - but after the past 3 days "Day of the Dead" seems a bit more fitting.
The kids don't wear Halloween costumes at school here - so no parades this year. Friday night was Trunk r Treat at the church - it was a big hit, lots of kids and fun and we forgot our camera. (kids didn't hold still anyway . . .)
Saturday was full of parties and events - Tember had a girl scout field trip in Sarasota and the boys all had swimming in Sarasota. Spencer had practice and an hour of beginning water polo (which he LOVED) and the two younger boys had a swim party - luckily at the same place and close to the same time.
We spent a few minutes at the Sarasota Goodwill working on a Halloween costume for Tomer - scroll down and see what you think.
Theo had a birthday party he was invited to in Parrish that afternoon and September and her friends did a make-up tumbling class since they all missed last Monday's class - (kids were out of school so we went hunting for sharks teeth at the beach in Venice instead)
And we all had been invited to a Halloween Party that evening in Parrish - it was a fun day - very long and LOTS of driving. The Explorer died - but the new part is on its way - and we are nearing 90000 miles on the MDX. We spend a LOT of time in the car here -
The missionaries got to come with us to the party - anyone guess what they came as?
A friend of ours got some much better shots of the event and I will add them when he emails them to us. For now - the following is the longest I could get them to hold still:
It was a fun night at the Wompey's - complete with a costume contest and dance floor.
We are tired today - not more than a handful of trick or treaters in the neighborhood tonight - makes us miss East Mill Creek even more . . .
The weather here just doesn't feel like Halloween - it is still so hot and no rain for weeks. The AC was broken in the chapel today - (sacrament meeting was very long).
More pictures to come - as the house comes together and we get some from friends I'll get 'em up here. Its nice to have the ability to sit and type again!
The kids don't wear Halloween costumes at school here - so no parades this year. Friday night was Trunk r Treat at the church - it was a big hit, lots of kids and fun and we forgot our camera. (kids didn't hold still anyway . . .)
Saturday was full of parties and events - Tember had a girl scout field trip in Sarasota and the boys all had swimming in Sarasota. Spencer had practice and an hour of beginning water polo (which he LOVED) and the two younger boys had a swim party - luckily at the same place and close to the same time.
We spent a few minutes at the Sarasota Goodwill working on a Halloween costume for Tomer - scroll down and see what you think.
Theo had a birthday party he was invited to in Parrish that afternoon and September and her friends did a make-up tumbling class since they all missed last Monday's class - (kids were out of school so we went hunting for sharks teeth at the beach in Venice instead)
And we all had been invited to a Halloween Party that evening in Parrish - it was a fun day - very long and LOTS of driving. The Explorer died - but the new part is on its way - and we are nearing 90000 miles on the MDX. We spend a LOT of time in the car here -
The missionaries got to come with us to the party - anyone guess what they came as?
A friend of ours got some much better shots of the event and I will add them when he emails them to us. For now - the following is the longest I could get them to hold still:
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| Theo =GI JO, Elder Brinley, Ben - Iron Man, Elder Gonzales, Tember = rockstar witch, Spencer = ninja |
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| couldn't see a thing until the camera flashed - so the pic is a bit tight |
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| I'll give you 2 hints - 1. NOT Zorro | 2. As You Wiiiiiiiissssssshhhhhhhhh |
We are tired today - not more than a handful of trick or treaters in the neighborhood tonight - makes us miss East Mill Creek even more . . .
The weather here just doesn't feel like Halloween - it is still so hot and no rain for weeks. The AC was broken in the chapel today - (sacrament meeting was very long).
More pictures to come - as the house comes together and we get some from friends I'll get 'em up here. Its nice to have the ability to sit and type again!
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Landing - for a time
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| Traded in the little white house for the little yellow and green one. |
The past few weeks have been full of crazy.
It has been a slow process - we had to be out on the 6th of October.
And the family who's home we have moved into weren't completely
out the day we moved in so we all felt a bit on top of each other for awhile.
Luckily we all get along really well - especially the kids, so it is more funny
We were grateful for the help of church members the night we moved - we
couldn't have done it without them.
The unpacking has been slow as I injured what I thought was my shoulder moving heavy furniture
so many times in such a short period. It has made typing and writing an talking on the
phone a bit painful so please accept my apologies on not being better at staying in touch.
I saw an Orthopedic Surgeon last week who quickly figured out that the pain in my shoulder was actually my muscles compensating for a crushed disk in my upper back.
I can't remember ever being in enough pain to nearly pass out -
until that Ortho pressed on my back then gave me a couple of cortisone shots.
Luckily, the home owner of the place we are renting is a Physical Therapist with his main office just up our street (yep, walking distance) and I am doing much better after many days of physical therapy (3 days a week!).
Otherwise, we are settling in. The 3 boys are sharing a room and a bathroom. Tember has her own room (she will share it when grandma's and friends come to visit) and she shares a bathroom with Tom & I.
The home owner & his dad just finished building an office for Tom in the garage and we are, for the most part, amazed that we can fit in 1600 square feet. The back patio is still full of empty boxes we aren't sure what to do with and there is a small pile of boxes in the living room. Those will be unpacked as I figure out where to put pictures and when we get some book cases.
The house is in need of some paint and a few repairs and there is this little ant problem . . . but we are trying to take it all in stride and are incredible grateful for good renters of our own back in Salt Lake.
Below are a few pics of the home we left behind -
super groovy stove - that also included the ONLY outlet in the kitchen.
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| The little too detailed mermaid on the tub/shower door we really don't miss. |
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| along with the strange cabinets in the bathroom |
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Wednesday
Last week we realized it was time for us to make a decision and get out of this house.
We felt we had really looked at everything and the best option seemed to be the townhouse near the middle school Spencer attends. We called the property manager and told him we were good to go and he got things going on his end. We offered to come meet him to sign a lease, give him applications, whatever he needed and he kept saying not to worry about it - he would get something to us the following weekend.
The townhouse would be nice. It would be much bigger than what we have now, it would be fine. There's a pool, a fitness center and it's a gated community full of expensive homes and a handfull of townhomes.
There was this funny little nag inside us - no yard, no kids in the community and it is pretty secluded from the rest of the area because it is flanked by busy roads and the water. Our first few weeks here were so rough because we didn't have friends for the kids to play with yet - but we knew there were kids in this area so we had hung in there and sure enough, they are having so much fun now! Oh well, we will just have to drive them a lot or hope more kids move in over there.
A few days later our realtor (who is also a friend and neighbor) called. There was this house that belongs to some friends of his that was coming up for rent. His friends had offered to buy another home in their same neighborhood last year and their offer had been turned down. That same home had just been put back up on the market at the price they offered last year and word had been put out that they were hoping this friend of our realtor would offer again.
The house they are buying is gorgeous - and the price was right, but they weren't comfortable making the offer unless their current home was taken care of - rented or sold. That's where we came in.
We went through the home.
It's not big.
It's not fancy.
It has 3 bedrooms (big ones)
It has 2 Full bathrooms
It has a backyard - complete with trampoline, hammock, skate ramp, swing set & patio.
The kitchen is tiny
There's no office
And our first thought was:
no
Spencer and Tember didn't want to share a room any more.
It is not much bigger than the place we are trying to get out of.
It's in a different ward (different congregation for church)
But it had tons of kids, including their 5 who would still be living in the neighborhood (they are also Mormons).
We offered a prayer before bed with the kids and again before we turned in that night, we decided to stick with the townhouse.
I didn't sleep most of the night. I woke up the next morning with a pit in my stomach.
We had made the wrong choice.
I called Tom at work and asked him if he was sure about the townhouse.
An hour later he called me back - he had come to the same conclusion I had -
the house was a better option for us. The kids will be happier and we will just have to
find a way to fit.
The owners of the house called us - in the middle of the night the husband had an idea - he could wall off part of the garage to make Tom an office. They have a wall unit to keep it cool and he would have more room than he has right now.
We went back that night and walked through it again.
After we left, September said to Tom - "Dad, I think we are supposed to move there"
We did too.
I slept that night. So did Tom.
Their offer got accepted in a matter of hours the next morning.
They have been moving out all weekend - into an 800 square foot home owned by her parents until their new home closes.
Their home will go on the market next spring when we put our home in SLC up for sale again.
We can stay as long or as short as we like.
The property manager of the townhouse said we were free to go since he never got us anything to sign.
It is only a few blocks from the water, an amazing park and it is just across the river from the neighborhood we are currently in.
It is full of that funny old house charm.
It is closer to the beach.
They are happy to let us have chickens, a garden and even bees if we like.
It has a dishwasher (not me!)
Central A/C
She is leaving her dryer! (no more laundromat for me!)
and a full sized fridge
and they are leaving the ping pong table until they move into their new home =)
Funny how simple we really are.
We move on Wednesday.
Stay tuned for pictures. . . .
We felt we had really looked at everything and the best option seemed to be the townhouse near the middle school Spencer attends. We called the property manager and told him we were good to go and he got things going on his end. We offered to come meet him to sign a lease, give him applications, whatever he needed and he kept saying not to worry about it - he would get something to us the following weekend.
The townhouse would be nice. It would be much bigger than what we have now, it would be fine. There's a pool, a fitness center and it's a gated community full of expensive homes and a handfull of townhomes.
There was this funny little nag inside us - no yard, no kids in the community and it is pretty secluded from the rest of the area because it is flanked by busy roads and the water. Our first few weeks here were so rough because we didn't have friends for the kids to play with yet - but we knew there were kids in this area so we had hung in there and sure enough, they are having so much fun now! Oh well, we will just have to drive them a lot or hope more kids move in over there.
A few days later our realtor (who is also a friend and neighbor) called. There was this house that belongs to some friends of his that was coming up for rent. His friends had offered to buy another home in their same neighborhood last year and their offer had been turned down. That same home had just been put back up on the market at the price they offered last year and word had been put out that they were hoping this friend of our realtor would offer again.
The house they are buying is gorgeous - and the price was right, but they weren't comfortable making the offer unless their current home was taken care of - rented or sold. That's where we came in.
We went through the home.
It's not big.
It's not fancy.
It has 3 bedrooms (big ones)
It has 2 Full bathrooms
It has a backyard - complete with trampoline, hammock, skate ramp, swing set & patio.
The kitchen is tiny
There's no office
And our first thought was:
no
Spencer and Tember didn't want to share a room any more.
It is not much bigger than the place we are trying to get out of.
It's in a different ward (different congregation for church)
But it had tons of kids, including their 5 who would still be living in the neighborhood (they are also Mormons).
We offered a prayer before bed with the kids and again before we turned in that night, we decided to stick with the townhouse.
I didn't sleep most of the night. I woke up the next morning with a pit in my stomach.
We had made the wrong choice.
I called Tom at work and asked him if he was sure about the townhouse.
An hour later he called me back - he had come to the same conclusion I had -
the house was a better option for us. The kids will be happier and we will just have to
find a way to fit.
The owners of the house called us - in the middle of the night the husband had an idea - he could wall off part of the garage to make Tom an office. They have a wall unit to keep it cool and he would have more room than he has right now.
We went back that night and walked through it again.
After we left, September said to Tom - "Dad, I think we are supposed to move there"
We did too.
I slept that night. So did Tom.
Their offer got accepted in a matter of hours the next morning.
They have been moving out all weekend - into an 800 square foot home owned by her parents until their new home closes.
Their home will go on the market next spring when we put our home in SLC up for sale again.
We can stay as long or as short as we like.
The property manager of the townhouse said we were free to go since he never got us anything to sign.
It is only a few blocks from the water, an amazing park and it is just across the river from the neighborhood we are currently in.
It is full of that funny old house charm.
It is closer to the beach.
They are happy to let us have chickens, a garden and even bees if we like.
It has a dishwasher (not me!)
Central A/C
She is leaving her dryer! (no more laundromat for me!)
and a full sized fridge
and they are leaving the ping pong table until they move into their new home =)
Funny how simple we really are.
We move on Wednesday.
Stay tuned for pictures. . . .
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
One week
Tuesday started bright and early - as it should!
Theo turned 6! And who would want to miss a minute of that day?
Grandma Debbie & Grandpa Steve called all the way from Egypt before
the kids got off to school with birthday wishes.
It was also International Day of Peace - and Wakeland Elementary celebrated with a program where the kids got to donate pennies to “Pennies for Peace”, sing a Peace song and have the schoolwide picture taken on the grass. They lined the kids up in the shape of a dove and the photographer stood on a ladder on the top of the school to get the shot. Should be fun to see the results.
After school was filled with birthday calls from family and friends, lots of birthday cards and fun. We ended the night with cake and ice cream with some new friends down the street.
Because it was a school night we put off miniature golf for a night (Wednesday is early out day here). The mini-golf facility is decked out as a pirates cove - complete with live allegators!
Check out the footage of the kids feeding the baby allegators and the Birthday Boogie Man!
Wednesday we met some of our new neighborhood friends at the park to discuss a possible camping trip for the weekend. (Camping!!)
At first we couldn’t figure out where one would camp in this area - but we were soon educated.
You camp at the beach!
While we were at the park figuring out menus and such the kids ran and played with a big group of kids from the area. They ran and played and suddenly out of the corner of my eye I saw this:
BEN RODE A BIKE!!! Why we didn’t think to put him on an old man’s bike I don’t know!! He rode and he rode and he rode - he pumped kids around and around! Needless to say - we are on a search for a 3 wheeled bike for him!
Thursday, Theo got to go have lunch at the Pittsburg Pirates training facility across the street from their school because he had been chosen as the kindergarten Student of the Month!
Spencer spent the week trying out for yearbook comittee at the middle school - going an hour early each day to design a cover that would be judged at the end of two weeks deciding who would get to stay on the comittee.
Unfortunately, the teacher didn’t feel he had all the skills necessary but encouraged him to try out next year after he had a chance to take a graphic art class. He was a little disappointed but thought the class was a good idea.
We found a good swim team, but it is a bit of a drive. We are still trying to work out how to get him there. But we are still trying to work out a bunch of things so we will add that to the list.
It was so different from the camping we have done up north!
First of all you bring a fan, and extension cords because the campsites have power! (keep in mind it doesn’t get much below 75 degrees here at night - nothing like the near freezing temps we were used to in the dead of summer in the mountains)
The campsites were full of Christmas lights at night -
strung up between palm trees on the beach campsites. Totally magical!
Since we arrived after dark on Friday night, Saturday morning brought such a surprise - we were camping in a jungle!
Theo learned to swing on the palm fronds like Tarzan and September
spent the morning swimming with a few Manatees!
Unfortunately, our camera ran out of battery - the heat zapped it in the car the night before and
we didn't have the charger, but we have been promised pics from our fellow campers and when we get them I will post all I can.
Tom took Spencer and Theo to meet a group from church to go fishing on the south fishing pier before he went into work for a few hours.
Ben spent most of his time fishing with the boys and doing everything he could to get ahold of the 3-wheeled bike that belongs to one of the older boys. We had to RUN after him several times to bring him back when the owner of the bike decided he wanted to ride it!
Monday Ben and mom spent the day at All Children's Hospital in St Pete. Unfortunately, Ben's heart function has dropped and he is being referred to the cardio myopathy clinic in November. We have several more appointments ahead of us in the coming weeks. For news on Ben's health we update
www.caringbridge.org/benjaminswapp - please feel free to check that out any time if you are interested.
Tonight we are hoping to get to the beach (tropical storm in the gulf = good waves) and make a decision on moving. We have a townhouse we are scheduled to move into next Wednesday - it is nice, and big and new with a pool out back and within walking distance to the Spencer's school. But there are very few kids in this community, it is gated and it includes some very exclusive million dollar homes. The townhouse has a private elevator (the only way we would do it with Ben) and a good sized garage for storage. It even has an office. But we are concerned about the lack of children in the community and hopeful that they will be tolerant of the noise and activity that comes with our family.
Out of the blue, this weekend, a family in the neighborhood across the river from us found out the house they have been trying to buy for years now has come down to their price. It is in their same neighborhood and they have offered us their current home for rent for as long as we need it.
It is small - 1600-1700 sq feet. 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms and a backyard full of toys. It is a neighborhood full of kids - including their 5. The price is right, they are willing to move out next week and are also willing to enclose the garage so Tom can have an office.
We have to make a decision tonight -
As a side note, I got a call from a woman whose husband is being transferred here from Birmingham, AL. They are also Mormon's (we have a mutual friend) They have 3 kids and have been looking for a 4 bedroom home for weeks now and are so frustrated - we talked for almost an hour about this crazy market and all the messes that are out here. It was so nice to hear someone else going through the same thing - although we are sorry someone else is feeling our pain. I was able to give her some leads and hopefully they will be here soon so we can get to know each other.
Wish us luck - better yet, offer a prayer. We are a bit tender in light of the new information on Ben's condition and we need to get out of this house next week.
Theo turned 6! And who would want to miss a minute of that day?
Grandma Debbie & Grandpa Steve called all the way from Egypt before
the kids got off to school with birthday wishes.
It was also International Day of Peace - and Wakeland Elementary celebrated with a program where the kids got to donate pennies to “Pennies for Peace”, sing a Peace song and have the schoolwide picture taken on the grass. They lined the kids up in the shape of a dove and the photographer stood on a ladder on the top of the school to get the shot. Should be fun to see the results.
After school was filled with birthday calls from family and friends, lots of birthday cards and fun. We ended the night with cake and ice cream with some new friends down the street.
Because it was a school night we put off miniature golf for a night (Wednesday is early out day here). The mini-golf facility is decked out as a pirates cove - complete with live allegators!
Wednesday we met some of our new neighborhood friends at the park to discuss a possible camping trip for the weekend. (Camping!!)
At first we couldn’t figure out where one would camp in this area - but we were soon educated.
You camp at the beach!
While we were at the park figuring out menus and such the kids ran and played with a big group of kids from the area. They ran and played and suddenly out of the corner of my eye I saw this:
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| Check out that smile! And he is giving his friend Emma a ride as well! |
BEN RODE A BIKE!!! Why we didn’t think to put him on an old man’s bike I don’t know!! He rode and he rode and he rode - he pumped kids around and around! Needless to say - we are on a search for a 3 wheeled bike for him!
Thursday, Theo got to go have lunch at the Pittsburg Pirates training facility across the street from their school because he had been chosen as the kindergarten Student of the Month!
Spencer spent the week trying out for yearbook comittee at the middle school - going an hour early each day to design a cover that would be judged at the end of two weeks deciding who would get to stay on the comittee.
Unfortunately, the teacher didn’t feel he had all the skills necessary but encouraged him to try out next year after he had a chance to take a graphic art class. He was a little disappointed but thought the class was a good idea.
We found a good swim team, but it is a bit of a drive. We are still trying to work out how to get him there. But we are still trying to work out a bunch of things so we will add that to the list.
It was so different from the camping we have done up north!
First of all you bring a fan, and extension cords because the campsites have power! (keep in mind it doesn’t get much below 75 degrees here at night - nothing like the near freezing temps we were used to in the dead of summer in the mountains)
The campsites were full of Christmas lights at night -
strung up between palm trees on the beach campsites. Totally magical!
Since we arrived after dark on Friday night, Saturday morning brought such a surprise - we were camping in a jungle!
Theo learned to swing on the palm fronds like Tarzan and September
spent the morning swimming with a few Manatees!
Unfortunately, our camera ran out of battery - the heat zapped it in the car the night before and
we didn't have the charger, but we have been promised pics from our fellow campers and when we get them I will post all I can.
Tom took Spencer and Theo to meet a group from church to go fishing on the south fishing pier before he went into work for a few hours.
Ben spent most of his time fishing with the boys and doing everything he could to get ahold of the 3-wheeled bike that belongs to one of the older boys. We had to RUN after him several times to bring him back when the owner of the bike decided he wanted to ride it!
Monday Ben and mom spent the day at All Children's Hospital in St Pete. Unfortunately, Ben's heart function has dropped and he is being referred to the cardio myopathy clinic in November. We have several more appointments ahead of us in the coming weeks. For news on Ben's health we update
www.caringbridge.org/benjaminswapp - please feel free to check that out any time if you are interested.
Tonight we are hoping to get to the beach (tropical storm in the gulf = good waves) and make a decision on moving. We have a townhouse we are scheduled to move into next Wednesday - it is nice, and big and new with a pool out back and within walking distance to the Spencer's school. But there are very few kids in this community, it is gated and it includes some very exclusive million dollar homes. The townhouse has a private elevator (the only way we would do it with Ben) and a good sized garage for storage. It even has an office. But we are concerned about the lack of children in the community and hopeful that they will be tolerant of the noise and activity that comes with our family.
Out of the blue, this weekend, a family in the neighborhood across the river from us found out the house they have been trying to buy for years now has come down to their price. It is in their same neighborhood and they have offered us their current home for rent for as long as we need it.
It is small - 1600-1700 sq feet. 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms and a backyard full of toys. It is a neighborhood full of kids - including their 5. The price is right, they are willing to move out next week and are also willing to enclose the garage so Tom can have an office.
We have to make a decision tonight -
As a side note, I got a call from a woman whose husband is being transferred here from Birmingham, AL. They are also Mormon's (we have a mutual friend) They have 3 kids and have been looking for a 4 bedroom home for weeks now and are so frustrated - we talked for almost an hour about this crazy market and all the messes that are out here. It was so nice to hear someone else going through the same thing - although we are sorry someone else is feeling our pain. I was able to give her some leads and hopefully they will be here soon so we can get to know each other.
Wish us luck - better yet, offer a prayer. We are a bit tender in light of the new information on Ben's condition and we need to get out of this house next week.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Welcome to Fraudula
After Dr Choo we saw a place on craigslist - decent price for a 3 bedroom with a den in a much talked about master planned community out East of the highway.
A phone call and I was on my way to see it - Tom stayed back to work and wait for the kids to get off the bus.
Many of these communities are gated and this one as no exception. The guards seemed nice enough and the drive in to the property was beautiful - lots of water, trees, green grass. At a roundabout before the I got to the property there was a fabulous swimming pool and playground. They were similar to the county parks and pools in other places we have lived - complete with fixtures that spray water, slides and lots of new shiny equipment - the kids would LOVE this.
The house is one of the last ones on a loop not far from the pool area. The realtor is waiting in his car in the driveway. When I get out of the car he rolls down the window and with his cell phone in one hand he says
"It's open - go in and tell me how much you love it! I have to make a few calls!" and quickly rolls up his window.
Weird
I opened the door and saw what seemed like a sea of shiny marble floors, marble pillars and hardwood. The house feels really big and the yard is the biggest one in the neighborhood . . the price they are asking for it is too low for something this big. Something just isn't right.
The house is full of glass - lots of windows and even 2 of the interior walls are glass
It would certainly be big enough for us and the kids would love the community amenities. The yard care is included in the cost of the rent - it is the cheapest thing we've seen in here by a few hundred dollars a month - something just doesn't add up.
Before I left I gave Tom the address of the property. He looked it up - sure enough the property is in foreclosure - no payments since November of last year.
The realtor walks in just about then -
You love it - don't you!
hmmm. . .
I ask him about the foreclosure proceedings.
Oh yes, the owner wants to be very upfront about that, and we would give you plenty of notice before we show it if it goes to short sale or if you have to vacate the premises.
(seriously?)
This home is owned by Dr ***** he's a friend of mine - gave me a cortizone shot 2 weeks ago! Don't you just love this place?
(Funny, that's not the name on the county tax records or the foreclosure docs we saw online . . )
Yes it certainly is nice - plenty of room. The central vac is nice and the landscaping is beautiful. I ask him a few questions about the HOA rules -
Aww, my policy is don't ask, if its a problem the owner will get a notice from the association and he'll tell you not to do it anymore. No trampoline though, against renters insurance.
Interesting he's worried more about renters insurance than the fact that he is showing a foreclosing home.
I continue to press about the foreclosure situation.
I manage over 100 properties and over 20 of those owners have been in foreclosure for the past 2 years. They haven't paid a dime to the banks but have been renting them out and pocketing the money for 2 years now! What a deal huh? Banks have lost the paperwork so these people are making out like bandits! Haven't dealt with this bank though, I have no idea how long it will take them. I think you'll be fine for a few months though . .
This guy is amazing
Hopefully you are picturing him right now - Hawaiian shirt open at the top to reveal a hairy chest and a big chunky gold chain with a cross. Perfectly coiffed hair and a tan - the only thing this slick willy is missing is that sound you hear on a commercial when the slick spokesperson smiles into the camera and it catches the light just right.
He hands me an application - the home can be ours in a blink
Fabulous! I should introduce him to Dr Choo . . .
A phone call and I was on my way to see it - Tom stayed back to work and wait for the kids to get off the bus.
Many of these communities are gated and this one as no exception. The guards seemed nice enough and the drive in to the property was beautiful - lots of water, trees, green grass. At a roundabout before the I got to the property there was a fabulous swimming pool and playground. They were similar to the county parks and pools in other places we have lived - complete with fixtures that spray water, slides and lots of new shiny equipment - the kids would LOVE this.
The house is one of the last ones on a loop not far from the pool area. The realtor is waiting in his car in the driveway. When I get out of the car he rolls down the window and with his cell phone in one hand he says
"It's open - go in and tell me how much you love it! I have to make a few calls!" and quickly rolls up his window.
Weird
The house is full of glass - lots of windows and even 2 of the interior walls are glass
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| you can't see it really well but this entire room is walled in glass |
Before I left I gave Tom the address of the property. He looked it up - sure enough the property is in foreclosure - no payments since November of last year.
The realtor walks in just about then -
You love it - don't you!
hmmm. . .
I ask him about the foreclosure proceedings.
Oh yes, the owner wants to be very upfront about that, and we would give you plenty of notice before we show it if it goes to short sale or if you have to vacate the premises.
(seriously?)
This home is owned by Dr ***** he's a friend of mine - gave me a cortizone shot 2 weeks ago! Don't you just love this place?
(Funny, that's not the name on the county tax records or the foreclosure docs we saw online . . )
Yes it certainly is nice - plenty of room. The central vac is nice and the landscaping is beautiful. I ask him a few questions about the HOA rules -
Aww, my policy is don't ask, if its a problem the owner will get a notice from the association and he'll tell you not to do it anymore. No trampoline though, against renters insurance.
Interesting he's worried more about renters insurance than the fact that he is showing a foreclosing home.
I continue to press about the foreclosure situation.
I manage over 100 properties and over 20 of those owners have been in foreclosure for the past 2 years. They haven't paid a dime to the banks but have been renting them out and pocketing the money for 2 years now! What a deal huh? Banks have lost the paperwork so these people are making out like bandits! Haven't dealt with this bank though, I have no idea how long it will take them. I think you'll be fine for a few months though . .
This guy is amazing
Hopefully you are picturing him right now - Hawaiian shirt open at the top to reveal a hairy chest and a big chunky gold chain with a cross. Perfectly coiffed hair and a tan - the only thing this slick willy is missing is that sound you hear on a commercial when the slick spokesperson smiles into the camera and it catches the light just right.
He hands me an application - the home can be ours in a blink
Fabulous! I should introduce him to Dr Choo . . .
Friday, September 17, 2010
Comic Relief
3 houses yesterday -
1st one- 9am, 4 bedroom town house, community pool, lots of stairs but would work and they will take a 9 month lease instead of a year if we want. Keeps us in the same area of town basically, no yard though. Definitely a possibility.
Quick trip out east to meet a Steve from the Dam Ranch - he raises cows, chickens and pigs on pasture and runs a co-op. You pay a small deposit to partially own one or more of the animals, then when they are ready to be taken to the butcher you get whatever part of the animal you pay for (1/8th, 1/4th, etc) we did this in Utah and loved it - best meat we ever had. (Christiansen Hog Heaven if you are interested)
He also sells eggs by the dozen from cage free, free-range chickens - it was a delight to hold a hen again!
He can hardly wait to meet the kids and mentioned there was a rental on 10 acres he heard about on the way back to town.
Cool
On the way back to the kids school I find it - call and sure enough - its available.
80+ year old man from Taiwan owns it -
4 bedroom
a dozen? on 10 acres you could have 100!
You have husband?
Yes
He handy?
very
Oh good - he fix up my barn, you have horse! Won't have to mow 10 acres!
*laugh* maybe someday.
You want to see it?
Yes, of course
Okay, I call you back
1 -Dis is Dr Choo - you want to see da house? 2 o'clock okay? You call me back?
2-Sherri?
Dis is Dr Choo - 2 o'clock I come to da house. You have chickens, pigs, what ever you want. Call me.
3-Dis is Dr Choo . . . ;you get there 1st you wait, I get there 1st I wait for you!
We met him at 2
He opened the gate
We followed him down the driveway (he signaled when he turned to park!)
The 10 acres was freshly mowed, stunning - beautiful horses in the property next door (I own, they pay $2200/month to live there and keep 6 horses, ) looked like a nice place next door - hopefully this one will be too.
We spent the next few minutes looking for the key - supposed to be left under the mat by the other renter who mows the lawn and cares for the pool.
No key
There's a window that is unlocked - Okay Tom you can go in that way
Tom hops through the window and unlocks the door
Strange - there is newspaper all over the counters - and Dr Choo casually begins to tuck his slacks into his socks as he invites us to go look around. Old renters said there was a flea problem . . he says casually.
(WHAT?)
We walk through a very small family room and down the hall, check out the old yellow bathroom and begin to feel a strangely painful sensation on our ankles and feet -
by the time we get back to the kitchen our feet are covered in FLEAS!
You Like?
Um, no - these are kind of a problem
Oh no! Fleas no problem! I have Borac Acid! I spray - they no problem! I use to own hotel, had lots of fleas, we use Borac Acid - they all gone. I still have 1/2 a bottle!
I call right now and we can spray today! He spends the next several minutes leaving multiple messages for his renter that cares for the place - repeatedly telling him to come and spray borac acid and kill the fleas. He doesn't want kids to get bit by fleas. (what a nice guy)
We're going to go look at the yard . . .
As soon as we get outside we are stamping our feet, cleaning off our shoes and trying to figure out how to get out of this place as fast as we can.
You think about it - I will spray tonight - you bring kids back tomorrow - you see, no fleas!
I make you great deal! I never met someone from Utah before! The bank says I in foreclosure, but I pay them the money, I don't want to lose this place. I retired Dr, came from Taiwan in '54. Fleas, no problem.
My phone rings as we are driving home - Sheri? Dis is Dr Choo! My wife bring borac acid to me now, we spray tonight - you come back tomorrow with kids. It be no problem! I never met someone from Utah - I make you great deal! You have 100 chickens, pigs, cows, bees - whatever you want!!
Oh man - gotta love this world we're living in - the Lord certainly MUST have a sense of humor.
Just wait 'till you see what I saw next.
1st one- 9am, 4 bedroom town house, community pool, lots of stairs but would work and they will take a 9 month lease instead of a year if we want. Keeps us in the same area of town basically, no yard though. Definitely a possibility.
Quick trip out east to meet a Steve from the Dam Ranch - he raises cows, chickens and pigs on pasture and runs a co-op. You pay a small deposit to partially own one or more of the animals, then when they are ready to be taken to the butcher you get whatever part of the animal you pay for (1/8th, 1/4th, etc) we did this in Utah and loved it - best meat we ever had. (Christiansen Hog Heaven if you are interested)
He also sells eggs by the dozen from cage free, free-range chickens - it was a delight to hold a hen again!
He can hardly wait to meet the kids and mentioned there was a rental on 10 acres he heard about on the way back to town.
Cool
On the way back to the kids school I find it - call and sure enough - its available.
80+ year old man from Taiwan owns it -
4 bedroom
you have horse?
no but we would love to raise chickenshow many?
maybe a dozen?a dozen? on 10 acres you could have 100!
You have husband?
Yes
He handy?
very
Oh good - he fix up my barn, you have horse! Won't have to mow 10 acres!
*laugh* maybe someday.
You want to see it?
Yes, of course
Okay, I call you back
Ran to the school to help and have lunch with the kids, in a 20 minute time period while I was
in the library (oh sorry, center of inquiry) he called 3 times:
Sherri?1 -Dis is Dr Choo - you want to see da house? 2 o'clock okay? You call me back?
2-Sherri?
Dis is Dr Choo - 2 o'clock I come to da house. You have chickens, pigs, what ever you want. Call me.
3-Dis is Dr Choo . . . ;you get there 1st you wait, I get there 1st I wait for you!
We met him at 2
He opened the gate
We followed him down the driveway (he signaled when he turned to park!)
The 10 acres was freshly mowed, stunning - beautiful horses in the property next door (I own, they pay $2200/month to live there and keep 6 horses, ) looked like a nice place next door - hopefully this one will be too.
We spent the next few minutes looking for the key - supposed to be left under the mat by the other renter who mows the lawn and cares for the pool.
No key
There's a window that is unlocked - Okay Tom you can go in that way
Tom hops through the window and unlocks the door
Strange - there is newspaper all over the counters - and Dr Choo casually begins to tuck his slacks into his socks as he invites us to go look around. Old renters said there was a flea problem . . he says casually.
(WHAT?)
We walk through a very small family room and down the hall, check out the old yellow bathroom and begin to feel a strangely painful sensation on our ankles and feet -
by the time we get back to the kitchen our feet are covered in FLEAS!
You Like?
Um, no - these are kind of a problem
Oh no! Fleas no problem! I have Borac Acid! I spray - they no problem! I use to own hotel, had lots of fleas, we use Borac Acid - they all gone. I still have 1/2 a bottle!
I call right now and we can spray today! He spends the next several minutes leaving multiple messages for his renter that cares for the place - repeatedly telling him to come and spray borac acid and kill the fleas. He doesn't want kids to get bit by fleas. (what a nice guy)
We're going to go look at the yard . . .
As soon as we get outside we are stamping our feet, cleaning off our shoes and trying to figure out how to get out of this place as fast as we can.
You think about it - I will spray tonight - you bring kids back tomorrow - you see, no fleas!
I make you great deal! I never met someone from Utah before! The bank says I in foreclosure, but I pay them the money, I don't want to lose this place. I retired Dr, came from Taiwan in '54. Fleas, no problem.
My phone rings as we are driving home - Sheri? Dis is Dr Choo! My wife bring borac acid to me now, we spray tonight - you come back tomorrow with kids. It be no problem! I never met someone from Utah - I make you great deal! You have 100 chickens, pigs, cows, bees - whatever you want!!
Just wait 'till you see what I saw next.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Crossing Over
Not much to report on the housing front - the home in the country turned out to be a big foreclosure mess - owner not having paid a dime on the place since last year and is now divorced and leaving the country with foreclosure proceedings started. Its hard to imagine being that desperate - these people take your deposit, your rental payments go straight to him and one day there's a knock on the door from the sheriff informing you that you have 48 hours to get out because the bank now owns the home.
Your deposits gone, you no longer have a lease and you are out . . .
FUN? not really
The sad part is the realtors turn a blind eye to it - they just list and market and don't check things out.
Luckily our realtor has shown us how to look the properties up so we don't get caught in a mess like that.
So, we are still looking . . . and looking and looking . . .
That hasn't stopped the rest of life from moving forward - last night, Spencer finally received his arrow of light - the highest award in cub scouting and the only badge that you can continue to wear throughout his scouting career.
Pretty cool!
The scout leader got to paint his face throughout the ceremony =)
after the arrow of light ceremony they did the cross over ceremony - although he has been in 11-year old scouts for 4 months now, it was so nice to have everything "official"
Spencer loved it - I know, hard to believe by the pictures, funny boy - he gets so nervous in front of people and cameras that he forgets to smile =)
They also made him a beautiful plaque - several people in the ward helped put it together - when we finally get the arrow on it I will post a picture, we are still waiting for that to come from his old leaders in UT.
September got to try out Girl Scouts last night as well and loved it - I don't know if we will commit to that as we are still working out Activity Day schedule, but it is nice to have a few things come together for the kids.
Gotta run - going to look at another house and track down a grass-fed farmer.
Looks like Tom is going to be working for both companies for a few more months - 2 here, 3 there (from home), that will be a blessing to have him around. Nice to be in such demand!
I have some great beach pictures I will post later and hopefully some fun ones of our current neighborhood (think mayberry) and this fabulous place we are living in (bet you can't wait to see!)
until then
cheers!
Your deposits gone, you no longer have a lease and you are out . . .
FUN? not really
The sad part is the realtors turn a blind eye to it - they just list and market and don't check things out.
Luckily our realtor has shown us how to look the properties up so we don't get caught in a mess like that.
So, we are still looking . . . and looking and looking . . .
Pretty cool!
The scout leader got to paint his face throughout the ceremony =)
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| not a great shot - but if you look closely you can see the arrow of light on his forehead, | and paw on his cheek |
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| really, he was happy - |
Spencer loved it - I know, hard to believe by the pictures, funny boy - he gets so nervous in front of people and cameras that he forgets to smile =)
They also made him a beautiful plaque - several people in the ward helped put it together - when we finally get the arrow on it I will post a picture, we are still waiting for that to come from his old leaders in UT.
September got to try out Girl Scouts last night as well and loved it - I don't know if we will commit to that as we are still working out Activity Day schedule, but it is nice to have a few things come together for the kids.
Gotta run - going to look at another house and track down a grass-fed farmer.
Looks like Tom is going to be working for both companies for a few more months - 2 here, 3 there (from home), that will be a blessing to have him around. Nice to be in such demand!
I have some great beach pictures I will post later and hopefully some fun ones of our current neighborhood (think mayberry) and this fabulous place we are living in (bet you can't wait to see!)
until then
cheers!
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
A little sun . . a little rain . . .
There really isn't anything like living by the beach -
Labor Day weekend would have been much tougher if it weren't for the easy access to sun, water & sand.
We spent Saturday evening and all day Monday camped out at Holmes Beach on Anna Maria Island.
Before we even set our towels down we met a great family on Saturday who had just moved here from Iowa - their 3 boys (ages 10-15) spent the bulk of the evening teaching our kids how to skim board and we discussed neighborhoods and housing issues in detail with a couple who really new what we are going through.
On a Sunday morning walk we saw the owner of the other home we had offered to lease and he backed out, he just wants us to buy it (which we can't until we sell our home in SLC). Sunday was a tough one - that house was the one home we had walked into and instantly felt "at home" it really had felt like the right place for us and up until that day our exchanges with him and his realtor had gone well so we were knocked for a loop when he suddenly changed his mind.
Luckily, Monday was Labor Day and a few families from church invited us to meet them at the beach.
We had so much fun that we didn't get many pictures - but Tom got a few shots of Theo on the skim board he picked up for the kids. The rest of the kids tried it a few times and opted for the boogie boards (good waves that day!) but Theo just kept at it - by the time we left he was better on the skim board than kids twice his age - its much tougher than it looks. If you look closely you might catch the other kids in the background in the middle of chicken fights with a bunch of kids and dads from church as well.
It was a fun day - started out a bit grey and drizzly and ended up bright and sunny - we all have a bit of sunburn to show for it - we'll be better about reapplying sunscreen from now on.
The kids played so hard on Monday that Tuesday came a bit too early - Ben was so tired when he got out of the car that morning (missed the bus) that he fell and hit his head and knee in the parking lot. We spent the next 20 minutes in the school clinic - they have full-time nurses in the schools out here! Once they determined he didn't get a concussion and the knee was properly bandaged he was good to go and happy to have his wheel chair for the rest of the day.
Spencer got to start scouts on Tuesday evening and they are planning to do his crossover ceremony next Tuesday - Spencer earned his arrow of light back in May and for a variety of unfortunate circumstances was never officially awarded it. Hopefully next week I can post pics of a happy boy finally getting it!
Tom is busily trying to figure out how to finish working for Ernst & Young so he can start his new job here - E&Y is trying hard to keep him on as long as possible so it will be interesting to see how and when all this gets resolved.
We've taken a few drives to different parts of the county as we have been looking for housing and unfortunately are more confused than we were when we started. However; the Lord puts good people into our lives on purpose and some much needed guidance was offered last night that turned the lights back on and restored our hope. (Thanks Alli)
So with renewed faith we went back at it today - confident that the Lord above will guide and direct us and that we aren't amiss in waiting for the place that feels right, that works and is something we can be excited about.
In the mean time, we are fascinated by the amazing amounts of rain that comes out of the clouds here and we're meeting plenty of nice folks at the laundromat and in all sorts of neighborhoods as we search high and low for the right place to be.
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| its like a waterfall in the backyard |
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| This is the front yard /moat - can you find the sidewalk? |
Cheers & hugs -
Friday, September 3, 2010
Who told them we were coming?
Not long after we got to FL we had to put the utilities in our name in this house, which we did. I went to the city of Palmetto and paid the $175 water deposit - which isn't applied to anything and the only way to get it back is to move out of the state (we are considering this).
Then we called FP&L (Florida Power & Light) and transferred that into our names as well. We received follow up calls, emails, even access to our bill online. Then tonight for some strange reason we got this beauty:
Apparently they cannot give electric service to anyone with excellent credit - its just too risky. At least time is on our side - nothing moves quickly here, so hopefully the power will stay on through the holiday weekend until those folks at the power company come back to work and we can get this resolved.
My sun glasses got smashed about a week ago and I finally got around to grabbing another pair - I have this thing about only wearing dollar store sun glasses since the more I pay for sun glasses, the faster I lose them - anyway, I saw this dandy pair of rose colored specs and knew they were meant for me. (Let me know if any of you need a pair and I will keep my eyes open)
While we were waiting for the mail, we spent the day trying to convince the transportation department for Manatee County School District that Spencer's bus wasn't getting him home until 6pm (they get out at 4:35) and they assured us multiple times that his bus would be at the correct stop tonight before 5pm. Sure enough, just before 5 a bus came down the road - it was the bus Spencer rode last week and was moved off of due to over crowding - she stopped just long enough to tell me Spencer's bus was headed out to Parrish! (Think Draper for all you SLC-ites, a good 20 miles away)
Surely those rose colored dandy's were my saving grace as I stood on the corner using my cell phone for 30 minutes while the transportation department verified that Spencer was indeed on his way to Parrish and wouldn't be back until 6pm. Another 20 minutes on the phone and the poor woman who had to take my calls all day today finally agreed that there was enough room for him on the old bus so he could get home by 5 and on Tuesday he could begin riding it again. I'm sure it was the glasses -
As for the housing issue, there is a slight glimmer of hope on the horizon - there is a home not too far from where we are now, it is twice the size of this one (amazingly difficult to do here BTW) that has been up for sale for some time. It is the house we would love to buy and by some twist of fate (its the glasses again, surely) we are in active negotiations to rent, until our home in SLC sells.
Kind of crazy, but we have learned a lot from being in this little mess and those lessons are serving us well in this new endeavor. There is still a lot to work out and lots of prayers to be offered and answered - but once you start looking at things through some snazzy eye wear, you realize we have much to learn and even more to be grateful for.
If it works out, pictures will be forth coming. If it doesn't, we will be heading out East (remember the bus issue?) to rent the roomiest place we can find in our price range among the myriad of cookie cutter homes and town houses that sprang up like weeds during the housing boom (and are now foreclosing in record numbers) until our home sells in SLC next spring.
Can hardly wait to see what's next - thank goodness for the beach, rose-colored glasses and prayer.
Then we called FP&L (Florida Power & Light) and transferred that into our names as well. We received follow up calls, emails, even access to our bill online. Then tonight for some strange reason we got this beauty:
My sun glasses got smashed about a week ago and I finally got around to grabbing another pair - I have this thing about only wearing dollar store sun glasses since the more I pay for sun glasses, the faster I lose them - anyway, I saw this dandy pair of rose colored specs and knew they were meant for me. (Let me know if any of you need a pair and I will keep my eyes open)
While we were waiting for the mail, we spent the day trying to convince the transportation department for Manatee County School District that Spencer's bus wasn't getting him home until 6pm (they get out at 4:35) and they assured us multiple times that his bus would be at the correct stop tonight before 5pm. Sure enough, just before 5 a bus came down the road - it was the bus Spencer rode last week and was moved off of due to over crowding - she stopped just long enough to tell me Spencer's bus was headed out to Parrish! (Think Draper for all you SLC-ites, a good 20 miles away)
Surely those rose colored dandy's were my saving grace as I stood on the corner using my cell phone for 30 minutes while the transportation department verified that Spencer was indeed on his way to Parrish and wouldn't be back until 6pm. Another 20 minutes on the phone and the poor woman who had to take my calls all day today finally agreed that there was enough room for him on the old bus so he could get home by 5 and on Tuesday he could begin riding it again. I'm sure it was the glasses -
As for the housing issue, there is a slight glimmer of hope on the horizon - there is a home not too far from where we are now, it is twice the size of this one (amazingly difficult to do here BTW) that has been up for sale for some time. It is the house we would love to buy and by some twist of fate (its the glasses again, surely) we are in active negotiations to rent, until our home in SLC sells.
Kind of crazy, but we have learned a lot from being in this little mess and those lessons are serving us well in this new endeavor. There is still a lot to work out and lots of prayers to be offered and answered - but once you start looking at things through some snazzy eye wear, you realize we have much to learn and even more to be grateful for.
If it works out, pictures will be forth coming. If it doesn't, we will be heading out East (remember the bus issue?) to rent the roomiest place we can find in our price range among the myriad of cookie cutter homes and town houses that sprang up like weeds during the housing boom (and are now foreclosing in record numbers) until our home sells in SLC next spring.
Can hardly wait to see what's next - thank goodness for the beach, rose-colored glasses and prayer.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Challenging Blessings =)
It didn't take very long at all to realize we weren't dealing with someone who had just made a mistake in the square footage of the home. In a matter of a few minutes the deal fell apart this morning and we are now looking for another place to live.
One of the sweet things about being in the south is the religious mind set of most of the people we have run into. I am asked regularly which church I belong to (and then I am always invited to give theirs a try ) and everyone who has heard of our situation - and news travels fast in a small town - says "honey (or darlin' or ma'am) things happen for a reason and it'll work out. "
They are all right, about the working out part and certainly we will see the Lord's hand in all of this one day - even if it is to learn a few important lessons . . . and hopefully we will be better, wiser and more understanding from all of this if not a little better at moving furniture and learning to laugh instead of cry.
We'll post pics when we find a new place to land.
Best to you all -
check out the photo of the trees in the elementary school playground - Theo and I got to take a quick run around the track this morning for runner's club - there's lots of grass, shade and a babbling brook running through the grounds!
One of the sweet things about being in the south is the religious mind set of most of the people we have run into. I am asked regularly which church I belong to (and then I am always invited to give theirs a try ) and everyone who has heard of our situation - and news travels fast in a small town - says "honey (or darlin' or ma'am) things happen for a reason and it'll work out. "
They are all right, about the working out part and certainly we will see the Lord's hand in all of this one day - even if it is to learn a few important lessons . . . and hopefully we will be better, wiser and more understanding from all of this if not a little better at moving furniture and learning to laugh instead of cry.
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| see ya' later stinky grandma house |
We'll post pics when we find a new place to land.
Best to you all -
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Bumpy landing . . .
Hard to believe, but we made it. After what seemed like an eternal wait, Tom got the call and we were on our way to Florida.
We spent a week in early August looking for housing and schools and trying to get things squared away. We went back to Utah on the 12th and had the house packed and the moving truck loaded by the 19th and our cars arriving in Florida the day before we would (thanks to a myriad of angels and miracles who helped us pack, clean and get things moving).
We spent our final few days in Utah saying good-bye to friends and family, tying up loose ends and we flew out early August 21st.
Tom's new boss had some air mattress brought down (by her sweet as sugar parents) for us to sleep on and we were able to get into the home we have under contract so we could get everyone ready for school to start on the following Monday.
Needless to say (but I'm gonna say it) we were exhausted - but the kids were so excited to start their new schools that we just kept on going. They all seem to have great teachers, Spencer loves middle school and the kids are making friends each day. Their enthusiasm has made it easier - having them gone all day long has been hard! I miss them and the day drags - but soon I should be able to help in the classrooms and we will get into a schedule.
The actual moving portion of this adventure has been a bit more trying. The moving company called after we got here to inform us that our shipment came in 2000 lbs heavier than they had estimated - we nearly choked on the extra costs, but after requesting several audits and talking to everyone we could we just had to tough it out.
While we had been waiting for our things, Tom was really starting worry about being able to fit in the house. It just didn't seem as big although the MLS sheets had said it was a little over 2000 square feet. We had downsized quite a bit and figured we could work it out - our Salt Lake home is just over 2600 square feet. Unfortunately, as our belongings began arriving in the home it became pretty apparent that this home was much smaller than our last one and Tom pulled out his measuring tape. Sure enough, the rough square footage Tom came up with was less than 1500! We called our realtor and he started to checking out the tax records that verified our suspicions, the house is no where near 2000 square feet.
So for now, we have gone back to the sellers with our new information and we are waiting. We have offered the same price per square foot with the new square footage, but we have no idea what will happen from here. We are confident we can get out of the contract since it was all based on the home being 25% bigger, but we aren't certain what to do or where to go . . . if they lower the price significantly, we could possibly stay here, rent a storage unit or build a shed in the back and proceed as we had originally planned. If they won't lower the price or we decide this is just too small then we have to find a new place to go - something we haven't quite figured out yet.
That was Friday, Saturday we figured we would spend the day at the beach, the phone and internet company were due to connect us that morning and afterward we would take off for a much needed break. Nine hours after he arrived, he finally had us connected, it was 7pm, getting dark and stormy but we headed out anyway - 25 minutes to the beach was better than nothing!
In an attempt to blow off more wiggles and make up for Saturday, we decided to head out to Emerson Point on Sunday morning before church. Emerson Point is a state park/preserve where the Gulf of Mexico meets the Manatee river. Its only about 5 miles from our house and at the end of beautiful Snead island. Home to tons of crabs, fish and other marine life you can see right up close -
It could be that our heads are full of other things or the heat is getting to us but when we got to the end of the island Tom hopped out of the car and headed up a hill to get a look at the area - you can see the bridge over to St Pete, Anna Maria, everything. Theo followed him up and so did September. I went back to the car to check on Ben who was changing his shoes and Spencer who was reading. When Ben was ready I asked Spencer to make sure to lock the car and meet us on the trail ahead.
Pretty soon we were all chatting away with the local fishermen and discovering the zillions of crabs and creatures on the island. About 20 minutes later Tom went back to the car to make sure it was locked and suddenly realized he didn't have the keys.
After retracing our steps and offering some prayers, we realized he had left the keys in the car and we called roadside assistance (thank goodness for that) and spent the next hour waiting . . .
and waiting . . .
and waiting some more.
We saw a Mexican family bring in over a dozen good sized blue crabs (we are going to have to learn how to do that!!)
And we found a few treasures.
Finally our hero arrived and after much supervision (from our boys) and several tries - the car was opened, the keys were found and we were on our way. Nearly an hour late for church and with smiles on our faces, we are starting to realize we have got to take things very slowly here - because nothing good really comes quickly, right?
(For now, I will be posting on this blog, but I am hoping to figure out how to merge my two blogs together - when I do I will let ya'll know)
Until next time - and hopefully with better news!
s
We spent a week in early August looking for housing and schools and trying to get things squared away. We went back to Utah on the 12th and had the house packed and the moving truck loaded by the 19th and our cars arriving in Florida the day before we would (thanks to a myriad of angels and miracles who helped us pack, clean and get things moving).
We spent our final few days in Utah saying good-bye to friends and family, tying up loose ends and we flew out early August 21st.
Tom's new boss had some air mattress brought down (by her sweet as sugar parents) for us to sleep on and we were able to get into the home we have under contract so we could get everyone ready for school to start on the following Monday.
Needless to say (but I'm gonna say it) we were exhausted - but the kids were so excited to start their new schools that we just kept on going. They all seem to have great teachers, Spencer loves middle school and the kids are making friends each day. Their enthusiasm has made it easier - having them gone all day long has been hard! I miss them and the day drags - but soon I should be able to help in the classrooms and we will get into a schedule.
While we had been waiting for our things, Tom was really starting worry about being able to fit in the house. It just didn't seem as big although the MLS sheets had said it was a little over 2000 square feet. We had downsized quite a bit and figured we could work it out - our Salt Lake home is just over 2600 square feet. Unfortunately, as our belongings began arriving in the home it became pretty apparent that this home was much smaller than our last one and Tom pulled out his measuring tape. Sure enough, the rough square footage Tom came up with was less than 1500! We called our realtor and he started to checking out the tax records that verified our suspicions, the house is no where near 2000 square feet.
So for now, we have gone back to the sellers with our new information and we are waiting. We have offered the same price per square foot with the new square footage, but we have no idea what will happen from here. We are confident we can get out of the contract since it was all based on the home being 25% bigger, but we aren't certain what to do or where to go . . . if they lower the price significantly, we could possibly stay here, rent a storage unit or build a shed in the back and proceed as we had originally planned. If they won't lower the price or we decide this is just too small then we have to find a new place to go - something we haven't quite figured out yet.
That was Friday, Saturday we figured we would spend the day at the beach, the phone and internet company were due to connect us that morning and afterward we would take off for a much needed break. Nine hours after he arrived, he finally had us connected, it was 7pm, getting dark and stormy but we headed out anyway - 25 minutes to the beach was better than nothing!
It could be that our heads are full of other things or the heat is getting to us but when we got to the end of the island Tom hopped out of the car and headed up a hill to get a look at the area - you can see the bridge over to St Pete, Anna Maria, everything. Theo followed him up and so did September. I went back to the car to check on Ben who was changing his shoes and Spencer who was reading. When Ben was ready I asked Spencer to make sure to lock the car and meet us on the trail ahead.
Pretty soon we were all chatting away with the local fishermen and discovering the zillions of crabs and creatures on the island. About 20 minutes later Tom went back to the car to make sure it was locked and suddenly realized he didn't have the keys.
and waiting some more.
(For now, I will be posting on this blog, but I am hoping to figure out how to merge my two blogs together - when I do I will let ya'll know)
Until next time - and hopefully with better news!
s
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